How to Pay for a Private-Party Car

Dana Marchlowitz

May 14, 2025

| Updated:

June 26, 2025

When buying a private-party used car, you’re going to have to pay for it. Shocker, right? It turns out that the payment portion of the transaction is surprisingly sticky. Or was, until we developed PrivateAuto Pay.

PrivateAuto Pay empowers instant, fee-free payments of any amount. It’s like Venmo for large transactions. Before we get into how amazing it is, let’s look at why other avenues are less than awesome.

The Trouble with Other Payment Methods

Incumbent payment options involve one or more of the following:

1. Risky
2. Untenable for large transactions (volume limits on transfers)
3. Inconvenient
4. Slow

These factors introduce a lot of friction to the private-party transaction. You don’t need that.

How to pay cash for a car

How to Pay Cash for a Car

Buying a car with cash can save you a lot of money that would go to interest had you chosen to finance the vehicle. We’re big fans of paying cash for a car.

Physical cash can be a bit sketchy, though, especially where large sums are involved. If you’re a cash buyer, meetups with strangers can feel unsafe when you’re toting fat stacks of bills.

Here are some drawbacks to physical cash transactions:

  • Trust: do you really know the person you’re dealing with? How do you know they’re not going to take your cash and run?
  • Counterfeit cash: while counterfeiting is rare, can you prove to the seller that the bills are genuine?
  • Counting bills: do you enjoy counting out stacks of bills under the watchful eye of a stranger?
  • Paperwork: do you know how to do the bill of sale and title transfer for your state? Will you have a record of the transaction in case the seller wants to contest it?

PrivateAuto Pay allows you to pay cash—digitally. Actual dollars from your account to the seller’s, instantly.

No security worries, no counterfeit concerns, no transfer fees, and no limitations on transaction size. A few taps on your phone screen sends any amount instantly and securely.

PrivateAuto Pay keeps what’s best about cash and pairs it with 21st century convenience and security. Out with stacks of grubby bills, in with smooth digital payments.

Just fund your PrivateAuto Pay account from your bank account (checking or savings). When you meet up for the test drive and approve the vehicle, you and the seller will sign the bill of sale in the PrivateAuto app and you’ll be prompted to initiate payment. When you approve payment, cash will instantaneously move from your PrivateAuto Pay account to the sellers. Done.

PrivateAuto Pay is the safe, convenient, fast way to pay cash for a car.

Is a cashier’s check good?

A Cashier’s Check is Inconvenient

Many buyers prefer a cashier’s check for payment when buying a used car. A cashier’s check seems more certain than a personal check for transferring funds. However, unless you’re standing in front of the issuing bank during business hours and they verify the funds, the seller—if they’re smart—won’t see it as foolproof. Criminals have forged counterfeit cashier’s checks to con sellers.

To be absolutely sure your cashier’s check is valid, some sellers wait for it to clear their bank before releasing the title. This puts pressure on you to pay a large sum while trusting the seller to sign over the car later. It also means meeting twice, which is cumbersome.

Other sellers will insist on meeting you at your bank so the bank can verify the authenticity of the cashier’s check. While this works, it’s inconvenient and time-consuming.

With PrivateAuto Pay, funds instantly appear in the seller’s account, meaning you can get the deal done and be on your way. Plus, you get to skip the inconvenience (and limited banker’s hours) imposed by a cashier’s check.

Do Venmo or PayPal work?

Peer-to-Peer Cash Sharing Apps Have Limits

Peer-to-peer money sharing apps like Venmo and CashApp are handy for splitting bills and sending money to your friends and family. But when it comes to larger payments, they fall short. With weekly sending limits of around $5,000, these apps won’t work for buying a $20,000 Honda Civic, to say nothing of a $50,000 Jeep Wrangler.

PrivateAuto Pay offers a better solution. You can securely send and receive any amount fee-free and instantaneously, 24/7/365. As convenient as Venmo, without the limitations on transfer size.

Are wire transfers safe?

Wire Transfers are Cumbersome

For large transactions, many buyers opt to pay for a car by bank transfer. The advantage is that funds are guaranteed by the banks involved, making it a relatively safe payment option.

Wire transfers may be fairly secure, but they’re cumbersome to navigate.

Bank transfers require coordination between the buyer, seller, and two banks. If initiated outside banking hours, transfers can take days to complete. The seller must provide their banking details to the buyer, opening themselves to potential financial harm.

PrivateAuto Pay enables instant transfers between buyer and seller accounts, anytime, 24/7. No exchange of financial info. No reliance on outside institutions. No coordination needed. And no waiting.

For fast and seamless cash payments, PrivateAuto Pay is the new way to transfer funds instantly between bank accounts.

How about credit cards?

Are Credit Cards Any Good?

Credit cards are a lousy way to pay for a private-party car. Here’s why:

  • Credit card processors (e.g., Stripe) charge processing fees in the range of 3%. This adds up really fast when you’re spending $25K, $50K, or $70K on a vehicle. It certainly wipes out any credit card rewards you might get from the transaction.
  • It’s a giant hassle to set up a credit card transaction between two strangers. You’ll need to exchange sensitive info in the process. And it’s not instantaneous, meaning you won’t be able to get the deal done in one go.
  • Sellers hate credit card payments because they’re afraid of chargebacks. Yes, some unscrupulous buyers try to claw their money back after a private-party transaction, and it has sellers leery. A smart private-party seller prefers a payment method that can’t be reversed.
  • If you can’t afford the car outright, credit cards are a terrible way to finance it. Credit card companies charge insane interest rates. Get an affordable car loan from an auto lender instead, and your monthly car payment will be a lot lower.

The best way to pay for a used car

The Best Way to Pay for a Used Car From a Private Seller

PrivateAuto Pay is our native payment gateway that gives you escrow-like safeguards and ultimate convenience and security. Here’s how it works:

  • Your PrivateAuto Pay account is an FDIC-insured bank account that you own, accessed via your PrivateAuto profile.
  • Easily move money between your PrivateAuto Pay account and your external bank account via a balance transfer.
  • Send up to $1 million with no transaction fees.
  • Instant payments arrive any time of day, every day of the year.
  • No exchange of contact information or banking info.
  • Encrypted info protects your data from hackers.
  • Conclude the entire transaction when you meet the seller for a test drive. You can even buy a car long-distance and forgo that costly and inconvenient escrow company.

Find Your Car Anywhere, Transact with DealNow

DealNow is pure magic. It’s so much better than other payment methods that there’s really no comparison.

Good news: we’ve now made DealNow available for users of other platforms such as Craigslist and eBay Motors. You can fast-track a transaction using the DealNow transaction tool, which allows you to start a deal anywhere and instantly close the deal.

What is DealNow?

If you’ve already found a car that you want to buy—even if it’s not listed for sale on PrivateAuto—you can enjoy the power and convenience of PrivateAuto’s transactional infrastructure to get the deal done. Our DealNow fast-track solution allows you to skip the initial shopping and negotiation process and go straight to the transaction.

Whether your dream car is listed on Facebook Marketplace, is being sold by a friend of a friend, or is being auctioned on a site such as Bring a Trailer, you can invite the seller to DealNow and enjoy unparalleled security and convenience.

DealNow helps you avoid fraud, sign documents, and instantly transact online.

Here’s the DealNow transaction flow:

1. Invite the seller to DealNow via a custom link.
2. Enjoy identity verification, in-app messaging, and a test drive scheduling feature (none of which require you to exchange contact info).
3. Meet the seller and test drive and inspect the car.
4. You and the seller go together through a step-by-step transaction process in which you each confirm relevant details right in DealNow. From mileage to the VIN to the condition of the vehicle, we help you both prevent any errors.
5. You and the seller each electronically sign an official bill of sale. This is stored in your DealNow account as a legal record you can refer to down the road.
6. We prompt you to initiate payment after the seller is legally bound to the transaction from e-signing the bill of sale.
7. The seller gets a notification of funds received.
8. The seller signs over the car title and hands over the keys.

DealNow is so smooth, so safe, and so fast that you’ll never want to buy a car without it. No matter where you find your car—from eBay Motors to Cars.com to your neighbor next door—DealNow will help you get the deal done, quickly, safely, and conveniently.

What if I Need to Finance My Car?

Not everyone has the cash lying around to buy a car outright. If you need to finance your next vehicle purchase, we’ve got you covered.

PrivateAuto offers integrated financing with affordable auto loan rates. It all happens seamlessly within the PrivateAuto ecosystem. After a credit score check and approval, qualified buyers can have funds transferred into their PrivateAuto Pay account via a balance transfer between financial institutions.

Once financing is secured, you can instantly send money from your PrivateAuto Pay account to the seller after finding the right used car. There’s no need to coordinate with lenders or manage loan paperwork.

  • Everything happens in the PrivateAuto app, from initial financing application to funding the vehicle and sending payment.
  • Fast approvals. Get approved in minutes without having to fill out extensive paperwork.
  • Funds deposited quickly. Once approved, you’ll have financing deposited into your PrivateAuto account within days.
  • Instant transfers. Send funds instantly to the seller right from your PrivateAuto account.
  • One-stop-shop. Handle the entire private-party sale on PrivateAuto, from vehicle search through conclusion. You can even get additional services such as car transport, vehicle inspections, and more, all through our Service Hub.
  • Competitive rates. PrivateAuto offers financing from an FDIC partner, so you get competitive used auto loan rates.

 

Apply for used car financing through PrivateAuto today!

What to Do After You Buy a Car from a Private Seller?

Buying a car from a private seller (as opposed to a dealer) may take a few extra steps. It’s worth it: you get more vehicle for your money when you forgo the middleman markups and documentation fees associated with dealerships.

While individual states can have different nuances, here are the most common items you need to handle after you buy a used car from a private seller:

1. When you purchase the car, the seller should provide you with the signed title. Review it to make sure their name is listed and they signed it over to you.
2. Before driving off, contact your insurance company to add the car to your policy. You typically need valid insurance in your name to drive legally. Make sure you have proof of insurance.
3. Head to the DMV as soon as possible to transfer the title to your name and register the car. Bring the title, bill of sale, ID, and insurance documents. Pay any required sales taxes and registration fees.
4. The DMV will provide you with new registration documents and license plates for the car in your name. These are required to legally drive the car.
5. All states except California and Minnesota: the seller will remove the license plates and you’ll need to get new plates from the DMV.
6. Consider having the car inspected for safety and emissions testing if required in your state. The DMV can provide guidance.
7. Notify your insurance company that the car is now registered in your name. Provide them the new VIN, plates, and registration.

Buying a car is sort of like starting a relationship. You’ll be spending a lot of time together. Start things off right by handling all the details associated with buying a car from a private seller.

What is the Best Place to Buy a Car from a Private Seller?

PrivateAuto is the world’s only transactional automotive marketplace that provides the infrastructure and tools to transact securely. Other so-called “marketplaces” are just “meetingplaces”; they connect a buyer and a seller, but don’t support the transaction.

PrivateAuto is far and above the best car-buying app, but what if you don’t find the car you want? Maybe your perfect vehicle is listed on Craigslist, Facebook Marketplace, or CarGurus.

No problem. Find a car on another platform, then hop over to DealNow to conclude the deal securely and quickly. The DealNow fast-track solution gives you PrivateAuto’s seamless transaction support. Built-in tools like verified identities, legally binding documents, and lightning fast payments with no limits on the amount you can transfer.

So if your dream car pops up somewhere else, no problem! Use DealNow to wrap up the deal conveniently and safely. PrivateAuto’s first-of-its-kind transactional tools enable smooth purchases regardless of where you discover the ideal set of wheels.

Payments FAQ

Does PrivateAuto offer payment plans?

PrivateAuto is a transactional marketplace that connects you directly with private sellers. You do not pay us for your car; you pay the seller. We do offer in-app financing options via a third party lending partner. You can apply for financing within our app. If approved, the lender pays the seller in full while you make your monthly loan payments to the party lender according to the terms of the loan.

Both buyers and sellers get verified using the latest facial recognition technology to create a safe experience. Buyers must provide drivers license information, an email address, and a phone number. This personal information is hidden from other buyers and sellers and is only used to verify the user’s identity. Sellers must enter the VIN for the vehicle and create a profile before listing. A VIN is critical to investigating the ownership of a vehicle and determining whether the title is clean. Buyers and sellers can enjoy peace of mind on PrivateAuto knowing that both parties have been verified.

PrivateAuto has all the paperwork you need to buy your car in any state. Each state requires different paperwork to legally transfer titles and buy vehicles from a private party. Many states require a bill of sale. Some states have their own specific forms that are required to buy or sell a vehicle in the state.

PrivateAuto manages all these forms and makes them available for both buyers and sellers to electronically sign. The entire process is only accessible by the buyer and seller, which prevents the risk of identity theft. It can be difficult to keep up with state-specific laws, particularly if you’ve moved states recently, so use PrivateAuto to ensure a smooth and legal transaction.

Private Seller Exchange (PSX) is Autotrader’s facilitated transaction program. It is the result of Autotrader’s parent company, Cox Automotive, acquiring Tred, an online peer-to-peer car transaction facilitator. Autotrader wrapped Tred into its offerings and rebranded it Private Seller Exchange.

Private Seller Exchange uses human facilitators behind the scenes to make a transaction happen. This is very different from PrivateAuto’s tech-based solutions. Let’s compare PSX and PrivateAuto across the metrics that matter to users:

1. **Cost**. PrivateAuto is the clear winner here. We are free for buyers, and sellers pay either $99 (pay when you list) or $150 (pay when the vehicle sells). That’s it. PSX, in contrast, costs a lot more, and their costs aren’t totally transparent.
1.a. PSX for buyers: buyers pay a fee ranging from $80 to $199, depending on the state.
1.b. PSX for sellers: sellers pay a listing fee of $49, plus an additional “service charge” of $99 or .99% of the sale price, whichever is greater. For a $55K vehicle, that service charge amounts to $544.50.
1.c. Additional PSX fees: PSX may charge additional fees related to their facilitated services; these costs are not well-documented in their website literature. Anecdotally, we’ve heard reports that PSX total costs amount to $800–$1000 for most transactions.
2. **Speed**. PrivateAuto gives buyers and sellers the tools to transact instantly with no facilitators needed. PSX transactions take hours at a minimum, and sometimes days.
3. **Convenience**. PrivateAuto is more convenient for a cash-in-hand buyer purchasing from a title-in-hand seller. PrivateAuto also offers more services. PSX may be more convenient for vehicles under lien.
4. **Vehicles with liens**. PSX wins in this regard. PrivateAuto is working on integrating a lien-release solution; as of mid-2024, we recommend a seller pay off a lien before listing, which may be cumbersome for some sellers. PSX offers a lien release service that facilitates the private-party purchase of a vehicle that has an active loan on it.
5. **Test drives**. PrivateAuto has an in-app test drive scheduling feature, which makes it seamless for a buyer to schedule a test drive with no communication needed. PSX does not facilitate the scheduling of test drives.
Financing. Both platforms offer third-party financing options integrated into their dealflow.
6. **Pre-purchase inspection**. PrivateAuto’s LemonSquad integration lets a buyer order an inspection from a qualified mechanic from their PrivateAuto dealflow. PSX does not offer inspections.
7. **Car transport**. PrivateAuto’s RunBuggy integration allows buyers to order car shipping as part of their transaction. PSX does not offer car transport.
8. **Car photography**. PrivateAuto’s CarLive integration sends a professional vehicle photographer to the seller’s location; high-quality images automatically populate the vehicle listing. PSX does not offer vehicle photography services.
9. **Car insurance**. PrivateAuto’s Insurify integration lets buyers compare quotes and get car insurance from within the PrivateAuto app.
10. **Payment**. PrivateAuto’s banking integration wins the day. PrivateAuto Pay allows buyers and sellers to transfer unlimited funds, instantly, anytime, and with no transfer fees. The instantaneous, secure nature of PrivateAuto Pay facilitates on-the-spot transactions and provides escrow-like safeguards without the expense and inconvenience of a third-party escrow service. PSX functions as a third-party escrow service, receiving a buyer’s payment and later releasing it to the seller. PSX transactions take time and are based on the company’s operating hours.

The verdict: PrivateAuto wins hands-down for most private party car transactions. It’s cheaper, faster, and more convenient. Private Seller Exchange has the advantage with vehicles under lien, particularly for sellers who don’t want to navigate the process of paying off their car before listing.

If you’ve found a good used vehicle and are ready to buy it, a legitimate escrow service can help the transaction go smoothly. Unfortunately, escrow services are expensive and cumbersome.

PrivateAuto gives you escrow-like safeguards in the palm of your hand. Where escrow services charge exorbitant fees, PrivateAuto Pay is free.

PrivateAuto Pay is very secure. It is a direct banking integration that ensures payments are safely transferred without the risks associated with cash or cashier’s check sales. Payment information is also hidden from the seller, so a buyer doesn’t need to be concerned with bank information theft.

Typical private-party used car sales require handling a large amount of cash or processing a cashier’s check.

Cash can be stolen, and cashier’s checks can be falsified. Cashier’s checks may appear legitimate, even after being deposited, only to be exposed weeks later after you’ve already signed over your vehicle.

PrivateAuto Pay is a safer alternative that gives both parties peace of mind.

Buying a car from a private seller is not only a quicker process, but it can also save you money. You can avoid dealer fees and middleman markups, while enjoying a wider selection of vehicles from private owners. Whether you’re buying the latest luxury vehicle or an old car with maintenance issues, you’ll almost always save money in private sales. Read more about why private-party is better than dealer for buying a used car.

Dana Marchlowitz

Contributing Author

Dana is a seasoned executive with a strong background in startups and product management. Currently serving as the Chief Product Officer for PrivateAuto, Dana brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the role….